I need to give to myself right now...

I have a problem. You can't give until you have enough of yourself to give, and I've just gone through a lot that has ripped out half my soul. I have nothing left to give and what I have, I need to give to me at the moment if I'm ever going to regain my spirit. I'm sorry to let anyone down when I'd only just got this blog started. I know the spirit of giving is still within me, but there are times when it's just not possible.

Take care, and I hop you guys gained something from the spirit of this blog. Who knows, I may be back in a couple of weeks if things go OK.

SB x

A few suggestions of ways I can help make life easier for you...

Well, everyone likes lists, and I'm still waiting for the first person to reach out and ask for my help, so I thought I'll list a few of the totally random things I might be able to do to make life that bit easier or happier for you. I want to be one of those people that helps restore faith in humanity - I have a lot of spirit to share so please reach out and ask for some - it will make me happier too!

Some things I could do:

• Listen...if you're feeling down and don't want to be alone, email me. I'm not a counsellor, and if you're feeling suicidal, you need to go to the dr or your emergency services and get help in the real world, but I can listen, and I am a real person who cares. If you want me to post your email to get support from my followers, tell me. If not, I'll keep it private.
• Someone to bounce ideas off...maybe if you have a dilemma or a question we could post it on the site and see what ideas people come up with.
• Proofreading/editing. I have pretty good grammar (granted it's not 100% perfect but I have an honours degree in English) so if I can help with something you need checking I will.
• Connection...I believe we're all connected, but if you're feeling alone, you don't have to. Better still, tweet me if you want some real time banter!
• Time-saving tasks...you know, those little tasks/things you need to do/research/look-up online that should be quick but just aren't.
• Internet research - I know I just said this, but to clarify, if you have something you're stuck with, I'm happy to go out and join forums and post your question in several to get answers if you don't have the time or are not au fait with forums.
• Music theory. I play guitar and I'm pretty good with this, so if you're stuck I may be able to answer your question!
• Creative ideas. I'm no creative genius but I will try. I make my jewellery, and I write and paint when I can. If you're stuck with anything of this nature, I can try to help. I may even write a poem on demand, but I can't promise it'll be any better than a greetings card (will be fun to try though...!).

OK that's a few for now...I'm open to anything outside the box. Until I get requests, I will continue to post with my own ramblings and little offerings to the world, for you to enjoy or discard at your leisure/pleasure.

Don't be afraid to ask. And for those of you who read this, I would really appreciate if you take the time to click share, spread the link and help spread the word. There are people out there who could probably really use a little help, who may be struggling, overwhelmed or depressed (I've been there) and who may be very gratfeul for the opportunity. I'm not claiming I can save the world and I'm not trying to be a martyr. I absolutely do not think I'm better than anyone else (did I mention I think we're all one, and all connected), but what I am saying is that I have some time and love to give and I'd like it to be able to help someone in need than go to waste.

SB x

Yes, I really am here to give my support, in whatever way I can...

As it's my first post, I guess I'll cut to the chase and tell you what I'm offering here. I feel a lot of love and am feeling very blessed in my life at the moment, and I want to share and do my bit for the world. I ask nothing in return. I'm not saying I can do everything if this takes off, but I am willing to try. If there's something I can do virtually that will really help you out, I will. I'm pretty intelligent and good at learning things, so if there's anything at all you think I can help with just ask. I know I've been through times when I've just had too many tasks on my plate, and I have my own business as well as working full time, so I know how hard it can be. So if you're suffering and I can help, let me share the load.

I'm also willing  to listen. I've been through a lot of tough times in my life that have helped me to grow to where I am now, and I want to share that spirit and that feeling of being blessed. I can only listen, I can't advise and I can't solve your problems, but I can tell you I'm a real person and I'm here.

Check my profile, and if you feel I can help, don't be afraid to ask. I will be honest if I can't do it, and I've learnt to take care of myself so if I'm inundated, I may not be able to help straight away or may even have to say no, but I will always tell you, so don't be afraid to ask.

If you're feeling down, and when I have gained followers, if you want to have me post your email as a blog post just ask - there is nothing like the comfort or insight that can be gained from the comments of several others who hear your troubles.

Just email me at heretogive@gmail.com. And if you like this blog, please spread the word.

SB (The Supportive Blogger) x